monday musings

February 1, 2010

So last week I went on and on about my dear hubby. It wasn’t too much, was it? I worried a little that he’d be walking around here all big-headed, but I needn’t have. He’s got his head on straight. He’s a good guy.

So I may have mentioned here that my schedule is, to put it mildly, OVERLOADED. I thought I’d share some ideas that help keep me sane and in the right place at the right time (most of the time.)

1. Write -or type- it down. I have a million things running through my head at any one time, so I have to write down everything. I have written to-do lists, 2 Outlook calendars and a Google calendar. I keep a notebook in my purse for jotting down things I need to buy or research, or notes on a vision I’d like to create with my camera, or a recipe I’d like to try. I even cut out pictures from magazines or catalogs and tape them in there, as inspiration.

2. Ask for help. Take help when it’s offered. My parents and Mike’s mom and stepdad each come to our house one Saturday a month to watch the girls while we work. Mike’s parents drive almost an hour and a half to get here, and my parents drive three. Three hours down in the morning, to arrive by 9:15am. And then after a day of chaos violence fun, they drive the three hours back that night.

That’s big-time to me. I always feel guilty for asking them to do this for us…I’ve always been very independent, very “I can take care of myself.” And it’s a lot to ask. But honestly, I can’t imagine our lives being lived in any other way. The best part is watching my girls develop strong relationships with their grandparents. It’s simply priceless.

3. Meal plan, meal plan, meal plan. I’m a planner by nature, and typically very organized, so this comes somewhat easily for me. I actually created a chart containing meals, ingredients and instructions for 6 meals for the week. We have 6 of these meal plans, so we rotate through the whole batch of meals every 6 weeks. It took some work to create, but the payoff is great. I pull out that week’s mealplan, create my grocery list from it and go!

I’d be happy to email my meal plan chart to you! Why re-create the wheel and all that, right? Just email me christy@christyjohnson.com!

4. Schedule everything. I know I’m starting to sound reeeaalllly nerdy, but I swear by schedules. I have a Bookeeping Day, a Bill-Paying Day, a Grocery Store Day, a Laundry Day, and so on. There’s always room to move these things around as need be, but just knowing what I have on deck for the day is super helpful. It helps me to be less stressed and feel less overwhelmed, which is important to me. When I get too overwhelmed, I literally shut down and can’t accomplish anything at all. Less stress means I’m more effective and productive, which means I’m done with my tasks quickly and can spend more time with my family!

After all, they are my #1 priority. Every day.

I hope this helps someone out there in interwebland. And please leave a comment about how YOU keep from going crazy in your own fast-paced, out of control life!

And just for fun, a photograph from our snow day weekend! And look, I’m actually in it!

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Leslie posted the following on February 1, 2010 at 9:40 pm.

Love the picture :)
I know you have like NO TIME to do this but I like to take a day and cook meals (mostly casseroles, spaghetti sauce and pastas) that freeze easy and all I have to do is put them in the oven. If you are interested you can always email me and I can send you some great recipes. Even though I don’t work taking care of JJ & Harleyann full time and school is a pretty full time thing now that we are doing 3 classes it gets CRAZY and I do a lot when JJ naps in the morning and when he naps in the afternoon is when Harleyann is getting home and we work on her homework and then I am up late working on school work every night becuase I work on it after they are in bed when I can concentrate. I also do most housework after they are in bed so I can spend as much time as possible with them because I have learned that it goes way to fast since I had Harleyann. Can you believe she is going to be 8 in June??? I sure can not believe it. Hugs to you and keep up the good work.


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